It makes sense- why would a respectable girl hook up with a guy who she knows will not be around after a few days? And as for the girls who you meet at nice clubs/cafes and who speak English- they are just gold diggers. You have to learn Russian and live here for at least a month or two in order to find a good girl, meet with her enough times to get to know her, and then gain her trust and also trust her.

It’s a difficult proposition for foreigners who show up after meeting girls online. You think there’s some gorgeous virgin waiting for you, but as most of those sites are scams, she probably isn’t even available or have any interest in you. I have looked up countless girls on vkontakte (Russian facebook) from the most popular marriage site in the US (anastasiaweb.com) and found them online with boyfriends or newly married or discovered that they work as strippers. You will be surprised to learn their real situation. Besides, I also confirmed that these girls get paid to write letters and meet with foreigners. I dated one that I found on anastasia but looked up on vkontakte. She told me all about poor saps who sent her jewelry and other gifts without ever meeting her in real life. She turned out to be a little whore anyway, but she was a great lay.

Even after developing rapport with girls on vkontakte, I have been disappointed because I was ignored or rejected once I arrived in Ukraine. I lined up over a dozen dates before I got here, and I still haven’t had any of them follow-through now that I’m here. How anyone can be so naive to think that he has a chance using a marriage site is beyond me.

The truth of the matter is that the women in Ukraine don’t have it as bad as people in the West think. There are many wealthy Ukrainians driving around in Porsches and Mercedes who snatch up the best girls with gifts and fancy dinners. The other girls are happy to date normal men or even boys their own age. You will be angered to see beautiful girls with dorky, young guys – just as we are angered in the West when we see a supermodel with a fat, old businessman.

So with that said, either abandon the idea of getting a Uki bride, or take the steps necessary to acquire one. Learn the language. Take the trip out here and stay for 2 months at least. And then attack girls everywhere you go- don’t just rely on clubs or places like that. One Portuguese man who is here hunting girls uses creative approaches like stopping girls on the street with ridiculous questions or going into stores to hit on the shop girls. He is doing the only thing that works- which is playing the numbers game. He may only snag 1 out of 30 that way, but if he hits on 100 girls each week, he will have had a dozen girls after just one month. From those he can choose a girlfriend.

I can say that I’m an expert in this field. I got hooked on these girls in 2004 when I went to St. Petersburg for a four-day visit. That turned into 3 engagements and a marriage after I spent 13 months in Russia. I learned the language, culture, and paid my dues. I can tell you in that time, I had about 30 girlfriends, two of them tying up most of my free time, so I couldn’t date around. It is an incredible experience. The women here are a wonderful reminder of what women all over the world once were: feminine, beautiful, romantic, charming, sensual, etc. I would gladly give up all I have in the US to spend the rest of my days playing this game.

But this is changing fast. Women here are adapting Western ideas (like waiting until their late 20s to marry) and dating boys their own age. And after the Euro Cup 2012, you can kiss it all goodbye. Ukraine will be spoiled by all the foreign football fans who discover the best natural resource of this land. You’ll have to go to Siberia to find a good woman after that.